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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 19:08

How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hangs out with loser friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What is the moral stance on lying? Can you provide examples of when it is appropriate or inappropriate to lie? Does the Bible address this issue?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Does not procrastinate.

Why did Obito, a supposed "bad person," do good things for Kakashi?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Is it possible that my TF caused a kundalini awakening in another person? He is famous because He is a singer. We have not met physically yet, but I have gone through kundalini awakening and DNOTS and their ongoing. I have also had soul recognition so I know for sure that He is my Divine Counterpart and I do not have any doubts about it. But it is indeed perplexing that somebody had an awakening at the physical level because of Him. Is it a test for me? I have a mixture of feelings. On one hand I marvelled at Him and empathised with the person and on the other, I doubt if this just a test for me. I would appreciate your pov. Thank you for much.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

That's it for today.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Ask yourself:

What I need from you?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.